" ... That it may minister grace unto the hearers."

"Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers."

In plain English:
"Do not speak any mean or evil-spirited words; speak only those words that can be used to edify or build up, so that the words that you speak can help the people you speak them to."

Now, for the purpose of this article, the source of these words is irrelevant. The meaning behind them, however, is not.

In today's society, talk is everything. Some may say talk is cheap, or that actions speak louder than words. The truth is that while it is important to not contradict ourselves in word and deed, it is also important to carefully consider our words before we actually speak.

There are a few obvious reasons: we don't want to hurt somebody's feelings; we don't want to appear foolish or ignorant; and most importantly, we don't want to be flat out wrong or offensive; however, the underlying reasons for thinking before we speak may end up being more beneficial than the obvious ones. We have all said things we regretted or at least wished we would the opportunity to rephrase. How others view us is mainly based on what they hear us say or think that they hear us say.

Taking the time to plan out our words will prevent others from being able to misconstrue them and use them against us. It will also give proper explanation to sensitive issues in order to avoid sticky situations. One of the nicest benefits we can receive from thoughtful speech is a good reputation. Think how much we could stand out amongst our friends and associates if no one else could speak an ill word about us because we held our tongues in the same way.

Mom's old adage is true, "If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all." Because honestly, what do mean words get us? Nothing. Actually, they do earn us a few things: pain, heartache, a reputation among others as being a gossip or untrustworthy, and just overall unhappiness.

On the other hand, what can well thought-out, kind and careful words get us? Not only would they bring us a positive reputation like I have already stated, but they can also help us make new friends. The best benefit of kind words, in my opinion, is to see those words bring about a positive change in someone else's life. To see our words make someone feel good, to build them up if you will, and to help them in whatever they are struggling with is a greater gift to ourselves than anyone else could ever give us.

So remember that when speaking to others, we should not only be tactful and kind, but we should also intentionally say what we can in truth to help others and build them up.

"Let your speech be always with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you should answer every man."

~ Princess Grace ~

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